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When, why, and how to talk about your ADHD
Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

When, why, and how to talk about your ADHD

Deciding whether to talk about your ADHD can feel more complicated than expected, especially once you’re established in your career and relationships. This article explores disclosure as a strategic decision, not a confession, and offers a practical way to think through when, why, and how sharing actually serves you.

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When routines stop working for ADHD in midlife
Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

When routines stop working for ADHD in midlife

Routines that once worked can start to feel fragile in midlife, especially for adults with ADHD. When full resets fail, a steadier approach matters more than motivation. This post explores why routines break down over time and how simple anchors can create stability without forcing yourself into systems that no longer fit.

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Why I avoided the “professional” font on my website
Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

Why I avoided the “professional” font on my website

While updating my website on the weekend, I tested out Playfair Display - a font I use for headers in my social media posts - and immediately knew it was wrong. As a woman with ADHD, I felt that difference viscerally. Looking at serif fonts sometimes makes me nauseated. It’s like seasickness.

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Stop asking “What is wrong with me?”
Andrea Toole Andrea Toole

Stop asking “What is wrong with me?”

A late ADHD diagnosis is overwhelming. This practical, four-week guide outlines how to process the emotional impact, explore treatment options, and set up systems that support everyday life.

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